"X" Marks the Spot

This is dedicated to everyone who has been in a relationship and have, or tried to move on after a split from someone they use to love. Or perhaps you are this person that finds the need to make contact with an ex.
At first, I was a bit hesitant to put this out in the public space, but then realised, and with some coaxing from a few friends, I am not alone in this situation.
Just the other day, I was telling my daughter that although I started very late (i.e. 21/23 years old) in having a "BF" (boyfriend) in comparison to the norm nowadays, I have more than had my fair share of the opposite gender.
Even though no names have been mentioned to protect the identity of the receiver of this note, however, if by any chance you do recognise it, then please accept it for what it is. I am sure there is something you can learn from this too.
"Dear Ex Boyfriend

I have unblocked you for the next 48 hours (FB allowance) so that I can explain my "Lecture" to you.Perhaps I was not clear (which is not unusual) in my message the day after we went for lunch. My sole purpose of suggesting lunch, was that I could tell you face-to-face "thank you for your apology" and what it meant to me. It was clear to me that if I made any inappropriate suggestions, that you would at a drop of a hat be all game. I have never begged you to be in my life after our various "break-ups" through your own transgressions. I have always been willing (my downfall) to take you back because we connect in a way that has no inhibitions. I have for quite some time come to terms and accepted that you have moved on and have committed yourself to a marriage. So when you keep popping up in greetings on various occasions, it just upsets my inner-peace and makes me wonder, just how happy are you.

I really don't think it is fair that you keep doing that.

You asked when will it ever end between us and my answer was - probably never and that is why I blocked you on every social forum, so that I could end it.

It really upsets me when I think about what we had and possibly could have had, but I guess I was not good enough for you. Yes you can now say it was your fault, but the damage has been done.

If you believe I behaved inappropriately in anyway, then I apologise for that, but it was not my intention but to merely test the waters as to how much rope I could give you before you hung both of us.

There is no need for you to call me, as there is absolutely nothing to discuss. You are married and I am no longer a Plan B.

This needs to stop here and now.

You made your choice, so stay focused, and I will live the life I have always wanted to, whether I have someone special in my life or not.

Take care
CA"

If I happened to have turned out to be the "Madbitch" (name calling by the last ex-"friend" ### today), then you can thank yourself for having a hand in it. I can live with the name-calling, especially when it turns out I was right about you all along, that you are a liar and a cheat.
The best way to get over someone, is to remember how bad they made you feel about yourself, when it turned out you were not wrong.